That special time of year is right around the corner, and I’m not talking about Christmas. Yes, Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. To some, this is the day where arrows get stuck in the hearts of hopeless romantics. To others, this is the day where singles and the heartbroken alike celebrate, albeit with jealous energy. Whatever the case may be, I feel that many of us miss the primary idea behind Cupid’s special holiday.
For me, this day is simply about having fun. And in order to have fun, all anyone needs is a person, or a group of people to enjoy time with. Buying into what is “culturally ordained” as the proper way to celebrate Valentine’s Day is a poor way to go about festivites. It’s all about the heart, all about the surrounding people. No one needs money to have a good time, no one needs money to have fun. Personally speaking, the best experiences are ones that come from people I enjoy being around.
Whenever I walk into Giant, or any kind of grocery store. There is always a large display set up pertaining to whatever holiday is right around the corner. This past weekend was, you guessed it, a Valentine’s display. No doubt the material aspect of Valentine’s Day is appealing to some degree, but what I feel is important is the connection being built between couples, or a group of friends hanging out, as the case may be. Connections and bonds will last long after flowers wilt and chocolate expires.
The main idea I want to convey, is no matter who you are or what kind of situation you are in, this holiday is all about building connections with whomever you want. The day is not supposed to be about the most extravagant night out, nor righteous single fury. The day is supposed to be used to create lifetime bonds. Something that Giant, nor any store, can sell.